Finding a solution


Don’t find fault, find a remedy; anybody can complain.

Henry Ford

Search for solutions


Blaming external factors is not going to enable you to succeed in the next try because you are going to play the pointing finger game again.

John Taskinsoy

Fear of judgement

The truth is most of you won’t ever start because you don’t want to be seen starting at the bottom.

Joe Duncan


Take responsibility

The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control you own destiny.

Albert Ellis




A good leader takes a little more than his share of the blame, a little less than his share of the credit

Arnold Glasow

Don’t look for scapegoats

Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.

Chinese Proverb

When something goes wrong you should not start looking for someone to blame. Think about what you could have done or can do in the future to  prevent sucht things.

It is not worth anything to have someone to blame if it does not provide a solution. Don’t be the hater, instead be the one who observes and comes up with some ideas to be better next time. Take the high road!