Joy can be real only if people look upon their life as a service, and have a definite object in life outside themselves and their personal happiness.
Leo Tolstoi
Tolstoy this sneaky guy, I LOVE hime!
Honestly, I have to agree to a 100% to this! You have to have something to do in your life, not just yourself. If you think about you own happiness all the time, you can’t achieve happiness.
If you care for a family, lead a company, train your body as an athlete, reign a country or do something other meaningfull (to you!), you can attain joy!
/phil