Hi 🙂

Today I am going to talk about fault and responsibility. Whenever something bad happens or something goes wrong in life people start blaming each other, they look for fault, for a scapegoat, but that does not lead anywhere. Instead we should use our brains to do something useful and work out a solution to the problematic situation. Like Henry Ford said:

Don’t find fault.  Find a remedy.

Of course it may be tempting and easy to find a person responsible for your bad feelings, but will it help? Imagine a situation where you try very hard to blame someone for being the reason of your bad feelings and he just commits to be the reason and shrugs his shoulders, doing his thing. What could you possibly do? Nothing! You would be the victim of your own thinking, knowing who has the “fault”, talking bad about him, but not getting any nearer to a solution.

Blame someone else!

All people complain about situations and easily start blaming others around them if something turns out to be wrong, but few have the courage to say: “Ok guys, we fucked this thing up, now let’s work together on finding a solution!”

In order to be so honest to your self you should just not care and you should not give a fuck! Why should it be bad for you to make mistakes? Making mistakes, honestly realising it and trying again is the only way towards success. If you were right all the time, how could you evolve? Not at all!

So stop defending your habits and actions and start creating a mindset of learning and applying new things! And by the way: Enjoy it 😉

/phil

How could it be Calvins fault?